ask dr-robert

My 18 year old step son shaves his arms regularly. He has been doing this for over a year. He says it's more comfortable? I think there is a problem. Do you? L.

Dear L.--

I don’t know if your step son has a problem or not. I would have to speak with him directly in order to answer that.

If by "problem" you mean that you are uncomfortable or embarrassed by the idea that his sexuality might not be right down the macho-masculine middle, then the problem is yours, not your step son's, and I suggest you seek counseling to widen your view of human sexuality.

Be well.